Friday, February 25, 2011

Hearts, the Red-Eye, and More!

Wow! I can't believe that it's been two weeks since my last posting! I'm so sorry! Let me see if I can catch you up in a concise way. I'll let you know the good and the bad but I like to get the bad news out of the way and focus on the good!

THREE HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE PAST COUPLE OF WEEKS:

1) VALENTINE'S DAY:
Bad news: spent my first Valentine's Day with Brian with twenty boys at basketball practice
Good news: Brian is an awesome guy!!

The last time I liked Valentine's Day was approximately 25 years ago when I was in elementary school and everybody sent everybody in the class a little Valentine and if you were lucky, someone went all out and put a piece of candy or a lollipop with their Valentine. Ever since then, I have not liked Valentine's Day. Beyond getting the annual cards from my mom and sister, I've never had a reason to be a big fan. This year was obviously different but I didn't want to put any pressure on poor Brian. On Valentine's Day evening, we had basketball practice with 7-8 year-olds and 11-12 year-olds. Not exactly how I was planning on spending our first Valentine's Day together. The good news was that the bar was pretty low so he really didn't have to do much to exceed my expectations. But he did such a great job!! Not only did he give me a card, chocolates, etc., he took me to Ruth's Chris steakhouse for a wonderful dinner on Sunday night. He had beautiful flowers delivered to me at work on Monday. And he had gifts for me on Monday night, including a beautiful sapphire/diamond necklace. He is such an awesome guy!! I told him he more than made up for all those other Valentine's Days and he really never need to go to such lengths again in the future (although who am I to turn down gifts?!?!)!!

2) TRIP TO PORTLAND:
Bad News: Commercial airline travel is for the birds
Good News: I got to see my friend Cindy!!

Last week, POTUS headed to the other coast for a couple of events in San Fran and Portland, OR. I skipped the San Francisco part and went straight to Portland for the extremely quick trip. The two down parts for this trip was that it was so short and there was no charter. As you know, I am not a fan of commercial travel but it's becoming increasingly clear that I will have to suck it up and deal with it because it's here to stay for the most part! At least I get the miles. But I continued by quest to be okay with commercial flights with a trip to Portland. It was a direct flight but I was in the back of the plane and in the middle seat. It's hard to change your attitude while sitting in seat 29E.

But Portland (and the entire Pacific Northwest) is such a beautiful part of God's landscape that I love being there. I had only been to Portland one time, almost three years ago, but I think it's a great place! POTUS had an event at the Intel factory. It involved the science and math fair with middle school and high school students and I'll be honest, I didn't understand pretty much anything they were talking about. Those kids are incredibly smart cookies. Some middle school girls were showing off their Lego Robots who were doing bio-medical engineering research. Seriously? You can make Legos into things that do research? And they were in middle school? Hello!! That's insane! I feel like I was a fairly bright middle school student and I can tell you that no one I know was doing that!!! Turns out they all have science coaches. Seriously? I didn't even know that existed! I think my parents failed me with not providing a science coach. I could have really accomplished things in life had I had one! :)

After the event was over, we tied up a few loose ends for work but we still had a few hours before our red-eye flight took off. So it turned out that I was only a few minutes from my friend Cindy's house!! My correspondent dropped me off in a random parking lot and I called Cindy for her to come find me. We had a great time hanging out for a few hours and she and her husband and son were such wonderful hosts! We had a lovely dinner and just had fun hanging out until it was time for me to find my way back to the airport. I just LOVE those friendship that can pick up right where we left off even though it's been years since we've chatted. I am sooo blessed by Cindy and other friendships exactly like that!

Oh and about the red-eye. I wanted to get back to DC in time for the weekend so taking the red-eye was my best bet. But I have to say... there's nothing pleasant about it, especially in the middle seat. I have long been proud of being able to sleep on a plane and drug myself appropriately. And I was well on my way to keeping that streak alive until about 3a when the man next to me, who was sleeping, moved his arms to stretch and in the process elbowed me pretty hard right in the face. Needless to say, that woke me up and unfortunately, I was never able to really get back to sleep after that. So call me mean or vindictive but once I figured out that I wasn't really going back to sleep, I decided to get up and go to the bathroom just to wake him up. I didn't really have to go. I felt slightly guilty about that but then the throbbing in my face took those feelings away rather quickly!

3) BASKETBALL SEASON:
Bad News: We didn't make the playoffs! :(
Good News: I'm a natural basketball player/coach!

As I've mentioned previously, this is my first year coaching youth basketball. I use the word "coach" very loosely. The season is almost over but I have had more than a girl's fair share of basketball in the past couple of weeks. It's a really good thing that I actually like the game. And after spending the past few months under Coach Brian's tutelage, I actually understand what is going on. And I've seen a TON of games in the past couple of weeks- at least a dozen games since the last post! For our youth teams, only the older kids have a playoff and the sad news is that we didn't quite make it. We lost our game last weekend which was the determining factor. But the kids played hard and Coach Brian's strategy almost worked. Tomorrow is our last game for both teams plus the end of the season celebration. Both teams will have winning records at the end of the season. Last year, Brian's little kids' team never won a game and only scored 8 points the whole season. This year, they lost the first two games (still scoring more than 8 points) but have won all the rest of them. I'd like to say that I'm the differing factor and can take all credit for their success this season. But that wouldn't be true. Except for the snacks. I will take partial credit for those!

And while I'm talking about basketball, Brian and I have been shooting baskets at the gym after our workouts lately. And part of that is a free throw contest. Best out of 10. Keep in mind that I have never played basketball before. I have gotten 7 out of 10 shots more than once!!! Not even cheating!! Seriously!!! I really think I might have missed my calling and could have been a WNBA star!! Maybe next week I'll work on my dunking!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Working on the Low Wave?

Lately at the White House, POTUS has been hiding a bit. Not hiding from anything particular. But just not as many open press events in the past couple of weeks. Usually when he's come out to cameras, it's been about Egypt and all of those speeches/remarks are carefully planned out. It reminds me of the weight of any POTUS's words, no matter what the subject!

So I was at the WH for a few days this week and only saw him once. That's when he was coming home from a trip to Marquette, Michigan. I think he was actually happy to be home considering it was 5 degrees on the Upper Peninsula and it was a warm 34 degrees here. Maybe even 37! It was the same day that Egyptian President Mubarak stepped down so of course we shouted questions to him as he exited Marine One and walked across the lawn. He, of course, ignored the questions and went straight inside to meet with his National Security Team. But on his way by, he waved to me. Well, it might not have been completely directed to me alone but it was a start. It's no low-wave like POTUS 43 but baby steps!!
Also, on Thursday when I got to work, I was told that I was the pool for the VPOTUS event of the afternoon. I was caught a little off guard but recovered. :) You see, with POTUS events, we always know when we are pool for the day. It's a simple 5-day rotation so I can tell you when we'll be pool until the end of time (only if no other networks join the pool!) But with VPOTUS, it's on an ad-hoc basis. Not really but the ins-and outs of how that works is just too much inside baseball. It's just not on a regularly scheduled basis. So if I had known, I would have dressed up just a little bit more to be the one person representing the US media in the event. It wasn't like I was wearing pajamas bottoms and a ratty T-shirt. I always make sure I am not wearing jeans and I am presentable when I work at the WH. You just never know when you might get called on to go into the Roosevelt Room for an event with some world leaders. This event was only a photo-op with the Prime Minister of Slovenia. I attempted to ask VPOTUS a question on Egypt but he ignored me too. He heard my question. He just chose to not answer it. Instead, he and the PMoS talked about the Balkans and working together with the European Union. Blah, blah, blah. (No offense to any Balkan friends out there... it just wasn't newsy!) The funniest part of the event was when the PMofS joked that he could create a controversy so that VPOTUS could visit Slovenia again. I think there is enough world news going on that creating news isn't necessary!

Friday, February 4, 2011

A Trip to Happy Valley

For those who know me (and even those who don't), you know I am a die-hard Hokie fan. Nothing will ever change that. I truly believe that it was God's will for my life to go to school at Virginia Tech and I value my education and cherish the friendships that began there. So just to make clear, I still love the Hokies.

But in the last six months or so, I've come to learn that there is in fact more than one awesome school in the U.S. :) as Brian has introduced me to one of his alma maters, Penn State. Honestly, the only thing I knew about PSU before I met Brian is that Joe Paterno is the football coach. I think pretty much everyone in America knows that so I had a lot to learn. But now I have grown to become a Nittany Lion fan (second to the Hokies, of course!). I've been to Penn State twice- once for a football game and once when Brian gave a lecture to a bunch of smart engineering grad students. And during my those trips, I've really come to like it. Really, it's for one reason...

Penn State reminds me a lot of Virginia Tech!! They are both big schools (PSU is bigger). Blacksburg and State College are very similar towns. Both schools have huge football programs (I'd argue the Hokies are better!) with longstanding coaches (Frank has a waaaaaays to go to catch up with Joe Pa.) Both have mascots that people have to ask about. "What is a Hokie?" or "What is a Nittany Lion?" Both have four syllable cheers at football games. "Let's Go! Ho-kies!" or "We are! Penn State!" Both have great engineering and agricultural science programs. And even two of my favorite COMM professors from VT now teach at PSU.
So this week, I was super excited to learn that POTUS was going to visit Penn State! And even more excited when I learned that I got to go! It would have been a lot more fun if Brian had been able to take the day off and come with me but I still had a great trip. First of all, on paper, things didn't look good. Instead of chartering a plane, the networks and press chartered a bus. That left DC a little after 4a. Yeah, that's early. That involves setting an alarm for sometime in the 2AM hour which is just ridiculously early. And it was a four hour bus ride with my colleagues. But in all reality, it wasn't bad at all. Setting the alarm was the most painful part of the process. I ended up sleeping most of the way to the Happy Valley which made me very happy. And when I woke up, I actually recognized how close to campus we were!

POTUS showed up a few hours after we got there (he obviously didn't have to take a four hour bus ride!) and toured some lab with a lot of smart stuff going on about thermal technology and energy efficiency. Those engineers weren't the same kind of engineer that Brian is so I'm a little clueless to what they were talking about. (Actually, even if they had been the same kind of engineer as Brian, I would probably have still been clueless!!)Then he came to Rec Hall to give a speech on energy efficiency. The speech was uneventful except that Joe Pa was there. And the most significant thing was that Rec Hall was one of the buildings where Brian played a lot of intramural basketball during his time in school! It had been part of the Brian-tour when I first visited campus! I don't think that's why POTUS chose to speak there but you never know!!So here was my favorite part of the day: When we got there, I asked the presidential advance person if we were going to get ice cream from the Creamery. He didn't know what I was talking about. You see, this might be the one way that Penn State far exceeds Virginia Tech. PSU is known for the Creamery which is a student-run ice cream (and dairy) store. After football games, people line up for blocks to get some! Anyway, they teach classes on how to make ice cream (and other dairy products)!!! If VT had that, I'm not sure my career path would have been the same!! And it's sooo yummy. When we were there in October, I had the best pumpkin pie ice cream ever!! So I strongly suggested to the WH aides that we needed some in the workspace. And lo and behold, a few minutes later I get the message delivered. "Becky, your delivery will be at 1p." Talk about serious power!!! Well actually, they brought three enormous tubs of ice cream- chocolate, vanilla, and a flavor called "Alumni Swirl" which had blueberries and chocolate chips. I guess real power would have been to have my own personal serving of pumpkin pie ice cream but I guess beggars can't be choosers!! :) But the opportunity to enjoy the Creamery's ice cream once again (even though it was 23 degrees outside) made this trip go down as pretty darn cool!!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Watching from afar...


I'm really bummed that this blog didn't exist back in 2007, when I went to visit my friend Kristen, who was living in Cairo at the time. I started the blog in May of that year and I went to Egypt in March. That's too bad because I have so many awesome memories from that trip and trust me, there would have been several really cool blog posts from back then. I feel like I've blogged a little about Egypt before but I can't find it in the archives. So bear with me if you have already read this and just treat me like the little old lady who can't remember anything and tells the same story over and over.

Anyway, fast forward to now, and I'm watching the coverage of the crisis in Egypt through a totally different lens than normal. I actually recognize (or at least I think so) many of the places where those the historical protests are taking place. And even if it's not the exact same place that I have in my mind, it's similar enough.

I absolutely loved being in Egypt for my vacation. My friend Kristen was such a gracious host and we had THE BEST TIME! We took in all the tourist attractions which provided lifelong memories and quite possibly the top of the list of cool things I've done in my life. Of course we saw the pyramids and climbed all over them. Saw the Sphinx. It was all surreal. I felt like I was on some movie set and had to keep reminding myself that it was real. We rode camels around the pyramids which was quite honestly perhaps the coolest thing I have ever done!
We went to the Egyptian Museum which was exceptionally cool. The stuff in there is OLD. I mean ANCIENT. There were rooms and rooms of things from 2000 BC or 2 AD. I'm used to going to a museum where the "old" things are from the 1700s and this place didn't have anything so new! This stuff was around when Moses was alive. It's almost too much for me to really grasp!! To be honest, at first glance, it seemed like an unorganized garage. Huge sarcophagi all around mixed with some other artifacts. And you could touch the stuff. Very few glass barriers. In fact, one family was having a picnic on some old tomb from B.C. It was crazy!!
They have an exhibit there that we paid a couple of extra Egyptian pounds to see which was well worth it. They have a dark room with a dozen or so mummies in there. Not only are we talking old but old and famous. Like the kings from the Old Testament. I was so saddened to hear that there was some looting in the museum over this weekend due to a handful of protesters and they cut the heads off of two mummies. I mean, it obviously didn't kill the mummies and I'm guessing you can just glue them back on but it just made me sooo sad that this treasure chest of history wasn't respected.

As Egyptians gather for the protests, I think I know where they are. I got to see real Egypt while I was there. I rode the subway in an all female car, shopped at their bazaar, went to their fast food restaurants, had coffee at their cafes. I thoroughly enjoyed their culture and would have never come close to seeing all of that had I been on some type of tour and even more so, had I been there for work.

More than the tourist attractions and doing every day normal things like Egyptians, the thing that stood out to me the most were the people. While I stood out from the crowd with my blond hair and received several stares in my travels, the majority of people were really friendly. These people I met represent the real people of Egypt. Many of whom are protesting for real change.*

I floated down the Nile on a felucca (Egyptian boat) on two different occasions. The sun setting on the Nile was breathtaking!! But on one of those trips, it was just Kristen and me and man running the boat. I don't remember much about him or quite frankly having a long conversation with him (there was obviously a language barrier!) but I talked to him long enough to hear about his family and his many kids. I saw families like his living in a small boat on the Nile, washing out their clothes. Clearly this man was doing his best to provide for his family.
I also met a young woman (I can't remember her name since it's been almost 4 years!) who Kristen had known during her time living there. We were invited up to her apartment for Kristen to say good-bye to (she was moving back to the States the same day I was ending my vacation.) Since we were inside her home, she didn't have to cover her head and her beautiful hair flowed all the way down her back. She was married and I believe her mother lived with them or nearby or something. It was clear that she and her husband were fairly well-off and they lived a rather comfortable life. I got to hear about her life and some of the challenges she faced. I realized how different her life was from mine even though we were roughly the same age. She couldn't understand how I wasn't married because basically everyone her age is married in Egypt (and let's face it, pretty much around the world!!!). I remember she served me some awesome fruit juice while we talked and it was a really neat visit learning more about their culture.

Right after that, as we were leaving the building, Kristen said we had one more stop. We went to basically what can be described as the crawl space under the building. Under the building is where the building superintendent and his wife and several small children lived. It was dark, dirty, and dusty and frankly not a place where one would want to spend a lot of time. But the family was happy and so nice. The wife even fixed us tea and gave us a snack and we sat and talked for a while. They were so hospitable and the kids were running around playing. But it was definitely less than sanity living conditions. The father worked hard to provide what little his family had. It was a touching experience to say the least.

These people were just examples of those hard-working Egyptian people that I had the honor of meeting. And they are likely the kinds of people who are out on the streets protesting for a new form of government. I won't express an opinion on what the US government should or shouldn't do but watching it does make me thankful for being able to live in the United States where I am thankful for true democracy and the rights that we have. It also makes me long for the same for the people of Egypt.

*Obviously I have no way of knowing if any of these actual people actually have been protesting in the past few days. And clearly I have no idea what their feelings towards their government are and honestly I have no way of finding out.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

The Long Road Home

I am so blessed to live where I live. It's convenient to just about everything and only about 20 minutes from my office. Even in rush hour, it takes about 35 minutes to get home on a bad day. However, add a few snowflakes and convenience is thrown out of the window!!


While last night's snowstorm will never compare to December 2009's trip to the 'Noke, it does earn a place in the blog history. (That, and really I don't have a lot to report on this week in the news and happenings of Becky!)


Yesterday, the federal government closed two hours early which for some was before the snow started. I decided to leave around 4p (we don't follow the federal government but I just made the decision to leave before it got really bad). I have no idea what happened but almost three hours later, I was not even home yet!!


This is what I saw for most of the three hours. And no, I was not being unsafe by taking a picture. We weren't moving for most of that time.



The normally 8 mile commute was way out of control. I understand people being safe and cautious but this was to the extremes. I saw cars spinning out and getting stuck but that's because they didn't know how to drive in snow. I'm not saying I'm great at it or that I have vast amounts of knowledge but I do know that if you quickly accelerate and then slam on your brakes, it's not good.


I didn't slide too much and actually the roads weren't that bad. I think it was just the massive amounts of people on the roads. I actually wasn't in too bad a mood. I was singing along with the radio, praying for several of my friends, looking at the pretty snow. That is, until about minute #124 when I had to go to the bathroom. This might be TMI but luckily, I have a great bladder and was able to hold it until I got to Brian's place for a pit stop. There were many cars stuck on his road but somehow by the grace of God, I made it up his little hill and into his parking lot before I was about to burst!!


And I really shouldn't complain too much because in this morning's paper, a lot of people had it much, much worse!! Read the article in the Washington Post here.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Hu's in the House

This past week was a busy week with Chinese President Hu Jintao's State Visit to the White House. While I've never been to his country, I'm sure I've seen him several times along the way at a G20 or some other world function. But it was a big deal for him to come here for such an ordeal.

I had prepared myself and got ready for his visit in one main way. I wanted to appear smart. I studied up on the usual stuff of US/China relations. But more than that, I wanted to make sure that I didn't get caught when someone said "Hu's coming to the WH", thinking that was a question. It just never got old. "Hu's on first?" "No, What's on second" or whatever the Abbott and Costello joke was. It just made me laugh every time. Except when I didn't get it a few times when other people were taking my joke and caught me!

I wish I had all kinds of lavish pictures of the official arrival ceremony or the fancy state dinner. I don't want to disappoint you but I never actually saw Mr. Hu. Due to various factors such as my schedule, the timing of events, not being pool for anything, I watched it all from the White House basement. And frankly, I was busy enough so I can't imagine how I would have gotten every thing done if I had actually taken time (and had permission) to attend any of the events. I was so slammed as it was! But it was an interesting thing to know something of such a grand scale was happening feet away from me and I couldn't see any of it! Hollywood stars such as Barbra Streisand and James Brolin and music legend Yo-Yo Ma and designer Vera Wang were upstairs having a good old time and no one came downstairs to the basement to say hello! I was really hoping Vera would take time to say hello so I could tell her how much I love my bridesmaids dress from my friend Catherine's wedding back in 2000! Oh well! Next time!

The only evidence of the happenings were that the Chinese press corps took over the briefing room (another reason I just stayed downstairs!) and that I could smell some of the food being cooked as I went into work. And after two solid days of talking about nothing other than Chinese relations, I was really expecting to be craving some General Tso's Chicken or something like that. And all I wanted was a cheeseburger for some reason! And Brian is such a wonderful guy that I had a cheeseburger (and chocolate milk) waiting for me when I eventually got home! What a guy!!

Saturday, January 15, 2011

POTUS and Basketball

Hello Blogreaders! (both of you!) I hadn't realized it had been so long since I blogged until I got chastised by my mom for being such a blog slacker. I'm pretty sure she was one step away from using my first, middle, and last names when calling me out. And for good reason since it's been more than two weeks. That's unacceptable in the blog world! I honestly admire bloggers who post every day. I really don't know how you do it!! Maybe I need to make another New Year's resolution that I will be a better blogger. I guess I need the accountability!!

Well, let me see if I can catch you up on the last two weeks. Um, yes. Not a lot going on. I've worked a lot since then yet, there hasn't really been anything remarkable to report. POTUS and fam came back from Hawaii on the 4th. I was at the WH when they came home. They looked severely disappointed to be back home. I guess I don't blame them. They had just been on a plane for 12 hours (overnight) and when they stepped off, the weather here was approximately 60 degrees colder than when they got on the plane in Hawaii. Plus the girls realized they had to go back to school the next day. I guess they are the typical family except that they have cameras on them to show the world their every move.One thing I did notice is how tall Malia is now. She's not that much shorter than her mom and just to remind you, Michelle is a tall lady (as evidenced from our Christmas picture together). And Malia is 13. Seriously. Obviously the tall genes are on her side but she has totally shot up a foot since the last time I saw her. (I'm still waiting for my growth spurt!!)

Besides that time on the 4th, I haven't seen POTUS since then. He's mainly been laying low with not a lot of public meetings or outings. He met with President Sarkozy (one of my faves) this week but it wasn't a grand affair (for a variety of reasons including the Arizona shootings) so I didn't see them. I was supposed to go to Schenecety, NY with him this week, which I'm sure would have inspired at least one blog post, but that was canceled because of the Arizona tragedy. And then he went to Tucson for the memorial service, but I didn't have to go with him.

So there's not been much to report from the work front lately. The other day, I was sitting in my office in the WH basement and I heard a faint unfamiliar sound. It was a vacuum upstairs! I immediately ran up there and begged the lady to come down and vacuum our booth. I'm not sure the last time the floor was cleaned in there. We used to have a shared vacuum in the basement but it broke many months ago and I'm fairly certain nothing had been done about it. They must vacuum the hallway of the basement occasionally but inside our booth, it had become so gross that when I thought about laying on the floor for a nap, it instantly woke me up because I knew it was too gross to lay there! For the record, they do a great job upstairs keeping it clean because people could potentially see that part if they strayed a little bit from where the tours go. No one goes downstairs except for us which is a good thing! Seriously, the vacuuming was the most exciting thing to happen at the WH this week!

Other than that, I've recently spent much of my free time consumed with basketball. I think I mentioned it earlier, but Brian and I are coaching two city league boys basketball teams... the younger ones are 7 and 8 years-old. And the older ones are 11 and 12 years old. For the record, I am taller than all the younger kids and I am taller than about three of the older kids. I feel my skills and abilities fall closer in range to the younger team but it's fun nonetheless.

Back at the WH Christmas party, Brian asked POTUS for some coaching advice. And POTUS wouldn't shut up about basketball. He asked Brian how old the kids were and then questioned me being a coach (understandably!)! He said the best thing is to teach the kids to get open. Then he went on and on with all these basketball terms that I'm not entirely sure their meaning- back door cuts and screens, etc. I honestly didn't know what he was talking about. FLOTUS chimed in about keeping them moving and not just standing there. POTUS talked about recent clinics he held for his girls and their friends. Seriously, they kept talking to the point that the military people running the picture line had to remind them to stop talking to take the picture. It was seriously one of the longest conversations I've had with a POTUS and I didn't understand half of what was being said.

Brian started off one of the first practices relaying POTUS's advice and pretty much no kid believed him until several weeks later when we had the picture to prove it. There are still a few skeptics. But Brian is sooo good with the kids and I've actually learned a ton about basketball from his coaching. It's like I'm the 11th person on the team because I pick up just as much as the kids do!! Haha!! It's a ton of fun and I even have a whistle!!! In all reality, I'm kind of a glorified team mom. I'm mainly in charge of snacks and water. Those responsibilities are much more in my range of skills. I'm sure the parents (including one set of parents who are both former college coaches and now scouts for the WNBA) have already figured out that I'm not a basketball player or coach. I'm not sure they actually know that I've never played in a basketball game in my life and my experience really only includes playing HORSE in the driveway with my sister (who apparently inherited all the tall genes and athletic ability.) But it's been a hoot!! Last weekend, we had our first games. The younger kids had a hard fought game but we lost by one point. Final score: 4 to 3. Yes, that was a basketball score. I was proud of our little guys and other team just lucked out one more basket than us. The older kids had a great game and won 27 to 21.

Hopefully this weekend, both teams will be victorious!! Too bad we aren't coaching girls in MD (rather than boys in VA) because we might play against Malia or Sasha's teams and POTUS could see how well we're doing with his advice!!